Honestly I don’t understand feminism of today.
I used to think feminists advocate for political, economic and social equality of both sexes.( For instance, females being allowed to go to school, study whatever course they want and are qualified to study, being employed by industries based on their competence rather than their gender, getting to play leadership roles as long as they are fit for it, speaking against female genital mutilation, encouraging females to fend for themselves and not solely depend on their husbands down to as little as preaching taking their guys on dates or proposing splitting of bills etc). I am the kind of person that would stand up for anyone irrespective of gender if I notice you have been standing for long.
I believe in sharing activities based on strength and health, you may say guys are naturally stronger, I won’t disagree, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t females who are stronger than males or that males can’t get tired, so why not share the work in a way that no one would be more fatigued than the other? That aside, You would never hear a vast majority of today’s “feminists” clamouring for any of these, you’d only see them appearing where men are shamed or where it only fully benefits females. They’d readily jump on boats shaming/bullying their fellow females for having opinions or for speaking up against male oppression/injustice.
We need to learn to differentiate between opportunism, toxic feminism, mere stupidity from “regular” feminism.
If being a feminist is turning you to a bully, stopping you from being a “meninist” or a “humanist” then you should really have a rethink.